END OF THE YEAR REFLECTION: QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF THIS DECEMBER

I am sure the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the month ‘December’ is “oblee” or “owambe” or basically just anything to get your hands as ‘detty’ as the month is. But sorry to burst your bubble, the end of the year is not just about celebrations; it is also a good time for quiet reflection. For students, December provides an opportunity to think beyond your academic or social life. It is more like a pause. It gives you space to think.

Here are some reflective questions you should ask yourself this December:

1.       What did I learn this year?

One important question to ask is “What did I learn this year?” This goes beyond academics. Think about personal growth, friendships, mistakes, and achievements. Every experience carries a lesson worth acknowledging.

2.       What Worked and What Didn’t?

Another helpful question to ask yourself is those things that worked for you and the ones that didn’t. Maybe your study habits improved, or perhaps procrastination held you back. Honest reflection helps you identify patterns you can either continue or change.

3.       Am I Closer to My Goals?

Ask yourself if you were closer to your goals than you were at the beginning of the year. This one is particularly important because it helps you know how well you did. Progress may not always be obvious, but even small steps matter. Recognizing them builds confidence and motivation.

4.       What Do I Want to Do Better Next Year?

Finally, ask yourself what you want to do better next year. This question is not to put you under unnecessary pressure or on a pedestal or perfection, but it is for direction. You’re your intentions and goals are clear, it helps to guide your decisions. It would help you make better choices and decisions.

Lastly, note that reflection is not about dwelling on the past; it is about preparing for the future. Taking time to pause, think, and reset helps students step into the new year with clarity and purpose.